These days, separation and divorce seems to be all around us. None of us ever set out on the path of marriage with the expectation that we will later be confronted with separation and divorce. We know that it happens to lots of other couples but we never really think that it will ever happen to us! So, when we ARE faced with a marriage breakup, we're seldom ready for ..... coping with divorce .

Below is an exact copy of a typical email we receive every day: -

Does any of this sound familiar? Divorce IS a very difficult and confusing time. Apart from a lot of mixed emotions, we often simply do not know where to begin.

The first real question you may need to ask your self is this, "Do I want to save my marriage?". IF you could save your marriage ......but you don't know where to start, then get yourself a copy of: - "Stop Your Divorce and Save Your Marriage".

If separation and divorce ARE inevitable, then there are a number of steps and stages involved, but getting a handle on practical issues that may affect you NOW is very important, as these short-term decisions can have long-term consequences.

Let's look at these initial steps: -

STEP 1: Start by removing some of the confusion that you're probably feeling right now. Many husbands try intimidation (standover tactics) as a way of making their spouse feel inferior and vunerable. You can avoid this by getting a handle on the practical issues involved, the options open to you, your own reactions and what your legal rights and entitlements are. Once you have done this, you'll begin to feel a little bit better.

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STEP 2: Read "How To Win When Facing Divorce" and take any practical steps that immediately apply to you.

STEP 3: Locate a Family Divorce Attorney in your area. Click on the "Divorce Lawyer" link here or at the top of this page and then check through to see if there is a suitable divorce attorney or law firm close to where you live. Whether you are searching for a divorce lawyer in Texas, California, New Jersey, Florida, Illinois, New York, Canada, the United Kingdom or even Australia, you'll find a link to someone who should be able to help you. If not (remember, the world is a big place), contact the Law Society in your Capital City and ask for a list of divorce lawyers in your location who specialize in separation and divorce law.

***Before contacting any of these law firms, do a search on the Internet for Divorce Courts in your State and have a good look around their website. Good websites, such as the Family Law Court websites, will often give a good idea as to the normal procedure, court filing fees and relevant court forms.

STEP 4: Decide if you need some legal advice and/or representation. This may sound odd but there are lots of people who actually represent themselves in divorce. In many cases, a party may simply want to apply to dissolve the marriage. In a lot of jurisdictions throughout the Western world, this is often a relatively simple process - particularly if it is a "No Fault" jurisdiction or where the Application is for an "Uncontested Divorce". Unnecessary legal fees are something we can all do without!

Of course, separation and divorce is often accompanied by other family law issues arising out of the breakdown of the marriage. Issues as to child custody and visiting rights, property disputes, domestic violence and so on are all complicating factors that often need some intervention by the courts. Having proper legal representation in these circumstanes, can be crucial to the outcome. Consequently, we strongly suggest that you do consult a lawyer so you at least know what your legal rights are and to ensure that your interests are protected so far as possible. To learn more about the Divorce Process - click here.

STEP 5: Contact the lawyer by phone first, where possible. The reason for this is that you may have some issues that need to be addressed IMMEDIATELY or you may at least need to know where you stand RIGHT NOW on certain matters. Sometimes a quick call to an experienced lawyer is enough to put your mind at rest.

***When it comes to legal advice and/or legal representation, some lawyers will charge you based on a set Court Scale of Fees while others will charge much higher fees under their own Retainer Agreement. Again, don't be afraid to ask.

Download the following DIVORCE FORM - Essential Details For Family Law Matters for free. Your divorce lawyer will need these details as well. This Form is FREE and will save your lawyer some time (which means it will save in legal fees). Make sure you print out the form, complete the details as best you can and then take the form with you when you do consult a divorce attorney.

Free download of the DIVORCE FORM - Essential Details For Family Law Matters

STEP 5: Start re-building your life. From time to time, we all need a bit of a makeover. When's the last time you really focussed on your own needs? You're a woman first and foremost. Dress up, get a new hairdo, lose those extra pounds, buy some sexy lingerie, look after your skin, get together with a girlfriend or two, have friends over for dinner and when you're ready - start dating!

DISCLAIMER: - The legal information on this website is not a substitute for legal advice. Each case depends on its own merits and you should consult an attorney for specific legal advice in relation to your particular case.

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